*♥Xx Licolě xX♥*

 

 

 

 

 

 

有這么2個實驗：

1. 兩位教學成果類似的老師被分配到2個班上課，其中一個是質優班，一個是放牛班。A老師被告知的是她要去教一個質優班，請老師認真帶領他們，實際分配給她的是那個放牛班；而B老師便被分到優生班，告訴她的卻是普通班，隨便教教就可以了。結果一個學期下來，原來的優生班成績遠遠比原來的差生班差。

2. 日本的小學生實驗。在家里放3碗米飯，每天上學之前，小學生要對第一碗米飯說：“我愛你，你好好吃噢！”，接著對第三碗米飯說：“你丑死了，沒人要理你！！”。 一個月下來，第一碗米飯變成黃色，發出酒香味。第二碗飯變黑發臭，長出霉菌。第三碗米飯比第二碗好點，只是變黑發臭。

 

2個實驗反映了觀察著和被觀察者的關係，我們的話語和意念都是緊緊相聯繫的。如果一個人充滿了快樂，正面的思想，那么好的人，事物都會與其共鳴，而且還可能會被其吸引。同樣的，要是一個人常帶著悲觀，憤世嫉俗的思想頻率，那么難怪倒霉的事情都會常伴著他。簡單點說就是物以類聚，臭味相投。

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從8月到現在都一直忙碌著。其實也不是真的很忙，就是自己惰性太重，做事情不到不得已都不會來點速度。一萬字的畢業論文已經去到尾聲了，其實我對這篇文章已經相當厭惡。如果還要我多寫2份的話，我一定會有心臟病。因為做作業，我經常一個人在Post graduate lab呆到很晚。晚到原來熱熱鬧鬧的room,最後只剩我一人。性格的關係，我一方面很ENJOY這個時刻，因為那些吵吵鬧鬧的聲音終於停止；但是另一面，我又很著急，最怕一堆小鳥一起叫的聲音，因為那意味著又一個4點半來臨了。。。

10月可以回國一個月，心里卻沒有很興奮。畢竟這一年對我來說，真的太煎熬了。不過我必須承認，這一年對我來說是來新西蘭的7年裡面最有意義的。爲了逼好的人，好的事物跟我一起共鳴，我決定要把“焦慮”和“頹廢”2個詞從我的人生裡面去掉。記得有人說過，如果有人可以讓我以後每天都不會愁眉苦臉，那就真的很佩服他的耐心。現在想想，這個人可能就是我自己吧。

By the way, 錯過了小魔星的一歲生日Party，在這裡鄭重祝他生日快樂，快高長大喔~~~乾媽回去一定要好好抱抱你。

還有啊，QY我也很想去武漢吃螃蟹！

Move out of your comfort zone and you will grow. Recognise the pain and learn to overcome all your suffering of the old. You are no longer that hurt little child powerless to move things beyond your control. You are now you, and you have the power of the present to change for the future. Two choices: Choose to continue with the pain and be stuck, or choose to grow and stand your ground with your own power. You are not powerless anymore; you have the power of choice.

又一年了...今年的生日比上年的來得精彩一點。起碼我出門了~

 

先說說在6月16號那天，晚飯過後，我的生日蛋糕是在平時part time的Burger King切的，和當時做closing的同事吃的蛋糕。沒有蠟燭，蛋糕用的是切BK CHICKEN和HAWAII BURGER的刀切的，吃蛋糕的盤子是用来装Salad的盤子，當然不少得附帶的叉子。十分謝謝Jason的蛋糕和禮物，還有陪我唱了2個小時45分鐘的卡拉ok.我相信在不久的將來，我們的歌喉會越來越精湛~~~

 

在正日這天：

 

上一年勞苦功高打包晚飯和蛋糕來我家的2位，今天在百忙之中都抽空帶嫲嫲和我吃了頓晚飯。特別注明的是上一年的2位還是好朋友如今已經是一對couple了。我的dear Catherine也是把手頭上的工作推掉來吃的晚飯。你們的禮物我都很喜歡~

 

上一年第一份收到的生日禮物是一束花，今天送花的人剛好在AUCKLAND。晚飯過后的餘興節目就是和他去了一個剛開叫BLUCH的Bar。BTW，那裡環境真的挺不錯。

 

我的babe Nikita今年不用再為我用電腦作畫了 -_-~現在正在為我指定的5，6樣生日禮物做準備。BABE i m waiting for you!!!

 

第25個生日，雖然沒有大宴親朋，可是很開心很滿足了。再次謝謝所以和我說過生日快樂的人。

 

真怪自己記性不好，忘記把相機拿出來拍照留念了。。。

 

 

 

ANYWAYS~ 一如既往，在新的一年中，我要定幾個目標，希望在明年生日review的時候都實踐了~

 

 

How long have I not seen you?
I had wondered where you were,
Yet all along you
Had stayed in the bottom of my heart,
Accompanying my breath.


How far are you away from me?
I thought I can't even sense a whiff of your presence.
How would I know
That your shadow's so long
That if I turned my head, I would glimpse you?


Let the bygones be bygones.
It's too late to start loving you again
The white clouds are molding and circling round the azure sky.

If We cannot walk together forever,
Then at least inspire us
To have courage to yearn and remember
The right to embrace each other
In order for you to understand the trace of my tempting heart.

Always hoping to see you again
Always trying to gather your news.
Yet all along you lived in my body,
Safeguarding my memories. 
 
 
I want to sing a song for you, called "心動 (Tempting heart)" .

 

Tonight, i went to Alex's grandparents house,

 

felt like returned to the time you and me knew each other...

 

Same weather, same place, same people around me,

 

as well as i am having a need to move house.

 

It has been almost one year...
 
 
I will be packing my stuff and yours before i move out 31 camelot place.

 

You will be seeing my sad eyes again if you will be here.

 

I am not a lucky girl, thanks for telling me this truth once again.

 
Might be now, is the best ending for us.

 

I dont know why you tend to hide yourself and run away no matter what situations you are in.
 
According to your experience, I think you can understand the feeling that your love one is gone,

 

what he/she leaves to you is the endless memories come across the places you have been to.

 

Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.

 

At this time, I am the one here to facing the pasts.

 

And congrats, you now become a sccessful hunter.
 
 
I hate myself more than i hate you.

"Dear modern man...

　　

　　you know what this modern woman wants for breakfast?

　　

　　Maybe oat meal, bacon and eggs if she's craving protein.

　　

　　Definitely coffee...

 

      But relax,

　　

　　I'm not gonna have you for breakfast,

　　

　　so please don't be such a weep about women at work.

　　

　　It's hard time to accept the fact that a woman might not just be your co-worker.

　　

　　She could be your boss,and you're gonna have to be prepared to deal,

　　

　　to be a man about it in the true sense of word.

　　

　　Sure,more working women means more competition but instead of being threatened

　

      by it,be challenged by it.

　　

　　Let's bring out the best in each other.

　　

　　Win or lose,if you are good supported ,everybody wins.

　　

　　Until you get your head around this,you'll be on your road,and I'll be on mine.

　　

　　I hope at some point we meet in the middle.

　　

　                                                                                          　Cheers, the modern woman."